Personal Excellence

  For students, development happens due to multiple factors like Upbringing at home (Parents) What is seen and heard from the surrounding locality where student resides Through schools Students own signature As students are quick leaners and intelligent observers, knowledge about personality development, if imparted in schools through various means will go a long way in positively impacting students like for future. Looking back, i have always wondered that the knowledge about behaviour, emotional intelligence which I got in my life, hope I had known it earlier. Career success or rather the quality of life a person lives depends more on EQ (measure of emotional intelligence) than IQ (Report card). Personality development goes a long way in improving students chances of success that comes handy to his studies. For students, Personality development can be comprised of: Dressing sense Dining etiquettes Managing differences Managing changes Building quality relationships Managing our e...

  The key criteria to be confident is how do you look at yourself. I mean what is your body image. How do you feel when you look at yourself in the mirror. Body image needs to be positive. In fact we need to be ok with our physical traits like skin color, height, weight etc. These are the factors that do not change. One should be ok with the way he/she is. What others say is an opinion and not a fact. If the body image is positive, then comes the next step. This is about what you choose to do, Its more about your profession. You need to be good at whatever you choose to do. The above two factors play a larger role in building self confidence. Another trap we need to avoid is keep comparing ourselves with others. Comparison might only make things worse as it depends on with whom are we comparing. Each one of us are unique and our stories are unique. Comparison is not a benchmark to be used to measure our growth. You need to measure your success by comparing with yourself may be a ye...

  First of all we need to understand where this self esteem is coming from. Most of the time, the important factor that causes low self esteem is the belief we carry. Belief is a combination of our understanding about ourselves, people and the world in general. Here very important factor is our understanding about ourselves. I would really like you to find out about this. What’s your understanding about your own selves. Our beliefs are formed mostly by our experiences, what we have heard about self from others, especially during our growth years from childhood till adulthood. It is responsible to the formation of our beliefs. These experiences are stored in our sub conscious mind and become the part of our belief system. The good thing about belief is that it is not there by birth. We acquires it. It is something which is learned and hence we can unlearn it. If you are possibly thinking low about self, its coming from this belief. One has to challenge our own beliefs if they are no...